If he doesn't respond to my divorce complaint, the boy is mine.
He's got seven more days and I hope I hear nothing from him.
Cross your fingers!
I should add, it's never been my intention to keep the boy away from his father. It's more the piece of mind for the boy to know he has a full time home no matter what. If 50 50 custody is awarded, I fear what the boy will feel. He will be stuck with not great things.
All his father has to do is ask to see him.
I do not call his father names. I tell the boy that I think his dad saw life passing him by. I tell him that I think his dad was depressed and thought this would make things better.
When he doesn't send money, I do get frustrated. We were depending on that money this summer and it's been hard, really hard. I tell the boy his dad probably worries he'll have to double pay.
But inside, I know he's spent too much, he always has.
fingers crossed you get full custody. I honestly think that would be best for Z's anxiety.
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