Life...

Today a sheriff deputy (or some other person employed by them to serve papers) called my cell phone, and hopefully he delivered the papers to him today.  I will get confirmation he was served by mail after they serve him.  He told me the apartment they live is in her name, he had asked if it could be in another name because it wasn't in his name.  When I gave him her name, he said, okay.

So, again I wait.  Once they notify me of the date he was served, I wait to see if he responds.  He has 21 days to respond.  The lawyer said if he doesn't respond, it's good for me.  I don't know if he knows about that, we shall see.  In the past he's always ignored that stuff, although his gf might look that stuff up. 

Band camp is a week from today.  Z is so nervous.  I told him today I'd drive there and back everyday if I have to.  I cancelled his mole removal appointment.  He wants it removed but it's adding to his stress, so we will reschedule at a better time.  Maybe winter when marching band is winding down for the year.  If is only being removed for cosmetic reasons, it is not something that would turn to cancer, so it can wait. 

If he makes it through band camp, I will be so glad.  I feel ready to let him go but he's really nervous.